Couples Therapists Are Sharing Immediate Red Flags In Relationships

by Victoria Vouloumanos, BuzzFeed Staff

1. Any kind of display of humiliating the other is never a good sign. Whatever is shown in the company of strangers is only a preview of what happens behind closed doors.
2. Contempt. When I experience true contempt from one in the relationship, I know it is usually over.
3. Refusal or inability to compromise is a ginormous red flag — one that, I believe, is empirically validated. 
4. Don’t go to couples counseling if your partner is abusive.

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